What a woman should NOT be:
1. Insecure- Most woman who are insecure about them selves usually are the ones who settle for just about anyone. Most woman become depressed when they are not happy with themselves.. so to all you woman who are insecure.. ALL WOMAN ARE BEAUTIFUL IN EVERY SINGLE WAY. and don't let ANYONE ever tell you different.
2. A Mat- Some woman are just to nice plain and simple.. Don't let anybody ever walk over you. You let them walk over you then YOU DISERVE BETTER. If it comes down to it... Tell yourself, this will not happen to you anymore. Put your foot down and stand up for yourself and don't be afraid to.
3. A slave: There is a difference between doing something for someone.. and doing EVERY SINGLE THING for someone. and noone appreciating you for it. Stop doing shit for other people if they not going to at least appreciate you for doing it to begin with. Some men will see you do things so much for them they will expect it every single day, and they won't have to lay a finger... I can't be the only one to say, it would be nice if he helped even just a little bit. or say Thank You.
Ps. This isn't pointing fingers out, this is my statement just in general to ALL WOMEN
4. Be afraid: Don't ever..EVER be afraid to fight for yourself, fight for your relationship or fight to get where you want to go in life. If you live your life afraid of taking those chances, Then your not living the life YOU want to live in.
Women Should Be:
1. In Control: Be in control of your own life, don't ever let anyone control it for you. You want to work hard and push yourself, don't let anybody back you down. Don't let anybody get in your way, Your life is your life and only you decide where you want it to go.
2. Confident: No matter how hard things may get, don't let anybody decrease your confidence. Women are as important as any man this world is. Even if theres a time you may struggle.. be confident you will get through it. Confidence is an another desire we must have in life to overcome our obstacles.
3. Optimistic: Think of the bright things in life. Think about the options you have now.. even if you want to write them on paper, go for it. But know you can do anything your heart and mind is telling you to do. Just remember, The harder you work, the bigger the outcome will be.
4. Strong: Strength is something that comes in many different forms. Being strong is sometimes the only option you have, and you take that strength and use it towards the things in life that never seem to end. Be a strong person and be proud of it. Never let anybody underestimate who you are.
5. Yourself: Many people I know heard this one. Being your self to be is being able to express exactly who you are from the inside out. If somebody can't accept you for who you are on the inside, then they don't even diserve to see who you are on the in or outside. Be youself through everything (unless your acting in a play or something lol) . There is no better way of learning who exactly you are unless you act like like yourself. Never try to compare your self to anybody else.. Everyones got their own flaws, their own ups and downs and you can only learn from your mistakes, not anybody elses.
I wanted to share this with all the beautiful women out there because I feel many women can be more than who they want to be. They can find who they want to be without worrying about what others may see them for. Some women diserve so much better than what they ever settle for and I want them to know they can do something about themselves. They can persue what they want in life because it's never to late. But they will never get the outcome they wanted so bad.. until they start trying. Remember..ALL WOMEN ARE BEAUTIFUL.. inside and out.
Thank you to everyone who has read this and I hope I put some inspiration into somebody today :)
